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How to Discover your Destiny

While I was reading today, I came across 8 steps to discover your destiny. Although, I know step processes don't always work, ie; 4 easy steps to lose weight. 5 steps to financial freedom and so on, I thought these were pretty close to a good 'step' program. Good stuff:

• Think about the desires of your heart, not what someone else wants you to do, or the fleeting fantasies of your mind- Ps. 37:3-4
• Determine what stirs your passion, drive and zeal- John 2:17
• Know what gifts and talents flow naturally through you- Rom. 12:4-6
• Seek counsel from mature friends, both Christian and non-christian and leaders- Prov. 11:14; 18:1
• Listen to the witness of the Holy Spirit in your spirit- Rom. 8:14
• Understand what you can or can't give yourself 100% in order to accomplish it- 1John 3:16
• Know what produces good fruit in your life- Matt. 12:33
• Follow the peace of God inside you- Col. 3:15

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Obsessed w/ Being Better

I just read this on another pastors blog, Steven Furtick.  He says it so well, there is no need to rewrite it. Here ya go.

I’m obsessed with being better. With doing better. And this extends to every area of my life. From being a husband and father, to being a preacher, to making up competitions with my lead staff. 

If I lifted 100 lbs. yesterday, I want to be able to lift 105 lbs. tomorrow. 

If I tithed x% this year, I want to tithe x+y% next year. 

If I preached a great sermon on Saturday night, it had better be near perfect by our second service on Sunday morning. In my mind, if I’m not getting better, I’m getting worse. If I’m not progressing, I’m regressing. There is no middle ground. There is a holy discontentment inside of me to constantly be improving. 

The reason is that “better” now will eventually become outdated and average later. When the first generation iPhone came out, it revolutionized the industry. But it was updated and replaced because it soon was no longer sufficient to meet the needs of those it was serving. Yesterday’s release of the iPhone 4 was just the latest update. A year or so from now, we will have the iPhone 5 because the needs of the consumer will constantly demand a better phone. Your capacity as a leader, a spouse, a parent, or an employee might be adequate right now, but it will be inadequate momentarily. 

The needs of those around you will constantly demand you to produce at a higher level. For this reason, we must have a healthy obsession with improving everything we do every time we do it. Not for the sake of pride. But for the sake of those who need us to be at our best and continually improving on our best. 

There is a potential danger with this mindset. We can become so busy constantly obsessing over being better that we do not take the time to adequately celebrate and appreciate where we are and how far we’ve come. This danger is real. We must continually be thankful for what God has done in and through us. Yet the bigger danger is standing still and settling for less than the future progress He still has for us. 

At every moment I must be performing at the maximum level of my capacity while at the same time be increasing my capacity for the moment that follows.